MERGE
Private Social Experiences
Curiosity • Chemistry • Connection
Wind Gap, PA
LOW & SLOW BBQ
🔥 MERGE - LOW & SLOW BBQ
Smoky Flavors. Heated Intentions.
Saturday, July 18, 2026
4:00 PM – 1:00 AM
Private Residence – Wind Gap, PA
(Address provided on your ticket receipt.)
Spend a summer afternoon and evening with MERGE as we combine a laid-back backyard BBQ with our signature after-hours indoor lifestyle experience. Meet new friends, reconnect with familiar faces, and let the evening unfold naturally.
This is a two-part, all-inclusive event. Your ticket includes both the afternoon picnic and the evening indoor MERGE event. Join us for the BBQ only, the evening only, or enjoy the entire experience—your ticket covers it all.
Unlike many lifestyle events, the afternoon BBQ gives everyone time to meet, talk, laugh, and become comfortable before the evening transitions indoors. Many guests tell us this relaxed approach is what makes MERGE different.
🕓 Schedule at a Glance
4:00 PM – Guest Arrival & Socializing
4:30 PM – 7:30 PM – BBQ Dinner Served
Sunset – MERGE After Hours Opens
1:00 AM – Event Concludes (or camp overnight)
🍖 PART ONE – Backyard BBQ
Relax, meet new people, enjoy great food, and spend the afternoon getting to know everyone before the evening unfolds.
Menu
• Slow-Smoked Pulled Pork
• Grilled Chicken
• Sausage
• Roasted Potatoes
• Corn on the Cob
• Baked Beans
• Fresh Seasonal Fruit
• Adult "Drunk Fruit" 🍉🍍
• Homemade Desserts
• Jell-O Shots
• Snacks available throughout the evening
Bring a lawn chair and settle in for an enjoyable afternoon outdoors.
🍷 Drinks
BYOB
MERGE will provide:
• Ice
• Water
• Soft Drinks
• Mixers
We'll also be offering complimentary tastings of our homemade:
🍷 Red Wine
🥂 White Wine
🍯 Mead
Sample them, enjoy them, and let us know which one is your favorite!
🌻 Summer Atmosphere
🎵 Music will be playing throughout the day and evening to create the perfect summer backyard atmosphere.
💦 Outdoor misting stations will be available to help everyone stay cool and comfortable throughout the afternoon.
Relax, mingle, enjoy the sunshine, and soak in the laid-back summer vibe before the evening shifts indoors.
🌙 PART TWO – MERGE After Hours
As the sun sets, the gathering naturally transitions indoors into the MERGE event space.
Features include:
• Three private play rooms
• Reverse Glory Hole
• Video Projection Play Room with live action projected onto a television in the lounge area
• Comfortable social seating areas
• Climate-controlled indoor environment
• Plenty of space to socialize, mingle, or simply relax between conversations
Whether you're there to socialize, watch, flirt, connect, or participate, everyone is encouraged to enjoy the evening at their own comfort level. There is never any expectation to participate.
🎁 Special Perks & Giveaways
We love rewarding our guests!
👯 Bring a Friend!
Women who bring another woman to the event will receive a special MERGE gift as our way of saying thank you.
🎟️ Raffle
Throughout the evening we'll also be holding raffles for gift certificates and other prizes, giving everyone a chance to win.
⛺ Overnight Camping
Not ready for the night to end?
Bring your tent and enjoy complimentary dry camping on the property.
Camping Details
• Dry camping (no electric or water hookups)
• Restroom available
• No shower facilities
• Bring your own tent and overnight supplies
• No campfires permitted
Wake up surrounded by friends, enjoy a relaxed morning, and head home refreshed.
📝 Event Information
✔ Couples, Single Women & Single Men are welcome
✔ First-time lifestyle guests are always welcome
✔ Single men are welcome without the usual pre-event vetting process for this event
✔ Advance ticket purchase is required
✔ Attendance is limited to approximately 60 guests to maintain a comfortable, social atmosphere
✔ Free on-site parking
✔ Casual summer attire recommended for the BBQ
✔ Feel free to arrive anytime after 4:00 PM
✔ Rain or shine — the indoor MERGE event space ensures the fun continues regardless of the weather
✔ Respect, communication, discretion, and enthusiastic consent are expected from all guests
🎒 What to Bring
• BYOB (your favorite beverages)
• Lawn chair
• Tent and overnight bag (if camping)
• A positive attitude
• An open mind
🌱 New to the Lifestyle?
You're not alone.
Many of our guests are attending one of their very first lifestyle events. MERGE was created to be welcoming, comfortable, and respectful for both newcomers and experienced guests alike.
There is absolutely no expectation to play. Many people simply enjoy the food, conversation, and social atmosphere. Others choose to observe, while some discover connections that naturally develop as the evening progresses.
Whether you're curious, experienced, or somewhere in between, you'll find a friendly community that believes great connections begin with great conversations.
Move at your own pace. Your comfort always comes first.
Come hungry.
Stay curious.
Meet new people.
Laugh a little.
Connect naturally.
Leave with unforgettable memories.
We can't wait to welcome you.
MERGE
Curiosity • Chemistry • Connection
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Who We Are
The MERGE Experience
MERGE is a private social experience designed for open-minded adults seeking genuine connection, chemistry, and unforgettable moments.
Our events are built around atmosphere as much as attraction. We believe the best experiences happen naturally — through conversation, laughter, anticipation, and the energy that develops when the right people come together.
Whether you're experienced in the lifestyle or simply exploring with curiosity, MERGE creates an environment that is welcoming, respectful, and pressure-free.
We value:
• Connection before expectation
• Respect and consent
• Discretion and privacy
• Social chemistry and balanced energy
Every event is thoughtfully structured to maintain the right balance of energy, comfort, and connection.
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